The first point is that just because you can date, sleep with, and attract any girl you want doesn’t mean you should. The reason is certain women out there who are terrible for you, certain women that you should never date.
You should not choose certain women who will break your tender heart into a million pieces. No matter what, you would hate to see your heart broken by one of these women or hate you be driven insane.
So, to avoid anxiety and have a normal life, you should know the girls who can break your heart in pieces and how to avoid them.
The types of women who will destroy you and drive you insane are as follows:
1- the attention addict girls
This type of girl lives and breathes for attention. She’s the type of girl who posts thousands of sexy selfies on social media and tracks how many likes and comments she gets. She’s also the type who you’ll find chatting and flirting with almost every guy she meets. Not to hook up with them necessarily.
But to get validation. The challenge with this girl is that it might initially seem like she likes you and wants to be with you.
She will flirt with you, laugh at your jokes, touch you, open up to you, etc.. Still, the moment your relationship’s novelty fades off and she’s bored of you, she will want to take off. She will leave you and hunt for the next guy to give her the attention she needs. So she can feel great about herself again. unless you’re looking for a casual hookup, which is fine or a short term fling. By staying away from this type of girl, you will do yourself a huge favor.
2- The money hound or the gold digger
Men are tools for her. Tools that can support her financially and show her a very nice lifestyle. She doesn’t give a crap about how good you are as a guy or how compatible you are. She only cares about how much money you make. What car do you drive? What type of work do you do and other superficial nonsense like that?
The challenge with this one is those types of girls are usually super hot.
So, at first, your primal brain will be like holy crap.
You will think that;
She is hot.
She’s into me.
I want this girl.
I will do anything to sleep with her or be with her.
That’s where you’ll fall into the trap. When you start dating her, she will come right after your money. She’s going to demand expensive gifts all the time. She’ll only want to go to posh places for dates; she might even take your credit card and go shopping without asking you. If you even try to stop spending on her, she will get pissed and upset.
So, my pro tip is to stay away from this type of girl, no matter how attractive she is, unless you want to have sex and not care about any aftermath.
It is not only dating advice, but it’s also financial advice.
3- The rebound hunter (Just broken up)
This one is a sneaky bullet to dodge. She is the girl who just came out of a relationship. Generally, a very serious one. She secretly misses her ex and wants him back. She doesn’t feel good about herself right now. She is lonely and desperate for love and connection. At this point, she goes out on the prowl. She looks for a guy who can fill the hole in her lonely heart and doesn’t want to date him long term.
She wants the guy to make her feel better, and in some cases, she might even enjoy the guy just to make her ex jealous. But whatever the situation, she is out once she fulfils her mission.
The challenge that you might face with this type of girl is twofold:
First, you can only know about it if she tells you she just got out of a relationship. Which means you won’t know if she’s hunting for a rebound.
Second, since she is super eager for love and connection, she will immediately show great interest in you. She’ll flirt and even make out or sleep with you very easily. Seeing this eagerness from a girl, you might get too excited. I understand, and you might start liking her a little too much.
Then get attached to her; this is exactly when you’ll run headfirst into a painful breakup.
So, if you’re looking for a long term partner, be careful and screen girls properly before you date them.
4- The one who never appreciates
It’s not a secret that women like compliments and appreciation. We certainly love them.
But as a man, I’m sure you also want to be with a girl who truly appreciates and compliments you. Once in a while, especially when you do something nice for her;
Like getting a new haircut or a promotion or trying on a cool new outfit, and that’s where the problem lies with this type of girl.
She’s going to upset your expectations during these moments. She won’t compliment you or tell you how much she appreciates you. It’ll seem like she just doesn’t give a damn about you, and that’ll make you feel really bad. As you spend more time with this girl, you may question if she likes you. Then you’ll start asking if you’re even good enough for her, and gradually, your self-esteem will take a huge hit, and that’s why you want to avoid this type of woman at all costs. Even if she is super hot, plenty of beautiful girls out there will genuinely appreciate you and your efforts. So, look for those girls and date them.
5- The girl with anger issues
This type of girl is nuts. She is like a hyperactive volcano. Something doesn’t go how she wants, and it’s like, BAM.
She’s going to erupt. The worst part is these eruptions will happen very often, and sometimes she will get pissed for absolutely no reason. She will just be angry, and if you try to calm her down, she will get more enraged than before. In simple words, she’s a terrible company.
There is no way you can be happy with her. She will destroy your mental piece. Even if you have some initial spark with her. It will fade out when you get familiar with her angry side, and you’ll notice it pretty quickly. So, stay away from her; if you date her, you will get burnt.
6- The cheater girl
They say the best predictor of the future is the past. That’s why you should avoid this girl. She is the
girl who has cheated on her ex or her exes. Like every other cheater, she would probably have her reasons. Maybe her ex was a douchebag, she was extremely drunk and didn’t know what she was doing. Whatever it is, she is going to have a reason for it.
Whether it’s a valid reason or not, it doesn’t matter. If she’s done it once, she might do it again, and she can come up with many reasons why it was okay.
So, your best bet is to avoid her, even if you’re super into her.
The biggest challenge you’ll face with this type of girl is that she’s quite hard to spot. A person would rarely be upfront with you about their cheating experience. So, you might find out later. This is why you need to look for subtle signs. Things like an extreme need for privacy, long calls with mysterious new friends, accusing you of having affairs. These are all signs that she may be a cheater or potentially a cheater in the future.
7- The girl whose friends are her exes
Dating this type of girl is like dating a time bomb. You see, most of the time, girls who still keep in touch with their exes still have some feelings for them. Especially if the breakup is recent, this means when you have one big argument with her, or you make her mad. She will be just one text away from a guy she liked and liked and used to date. A guy she had sex with and has shared really good memories.
If she gets a bit too emotional and acts on her impulse, she’ll probably end up cheating on you with him or dump you and go back to him.
It’s a possibility.
So, if she’s still really close with her ex, she’s a risk that you may not want to take. In case, If you want to date this girl, you should be upfront with her and ask her to explain the nature of her relationship with this guy.
Exes can remain friends in certain cases with no chance of getting back together. But those are few and far between. So, ask for clarity and transparency and decide how to proceed.
8- The perfect mismatch girl
This one is the hardest to avoid. She’s the girl who you’ll feel hopelessly attracted to. This girl is your ideal type physically. You are blown away by how sexy she is. Her smile, eyes, hair, amazing curves, and everything turns you on about her.
And finally, once she starts showing interest in you, all logical filters shut off. You want to impress her, be with her and do unspeakable things to her in the bedroom.
The problem is that although she is your ideal type, she needs to match physically and emotionally.
This girl has almost nothing in common with you.
Your hobbies, passions, aspirations, values, and nothing is in alignment, which means once the novelty of her amazing looks paid off. You’ll value her less and reduce the effort you initially put into maintaining. The relationship that will force her to lose interest in you. She will leave you and, finally, be with someone else.
Now, it’ll be okay if she leaves since you don’t value her as much as you used to. But that’s where it gets really interesting, not in a good way.
You see, your mind will play tricks on you after she leaves. It’s going to be like, how could I let this perfect looking girl go? Now, some other dude will be with her and have all the fun with her.
This is when the pain, regret and jealousy will kick in. As I mentioned before, this girl is the hardest to avoid. Since the male brain is highly influenced by physical appearance, the initial attraction you’ll feel for her will be intense.
The only advice I can give you here is this:
Have higher standards. Try your best not to date a girl only because she is hot. In case you do, what is going to happen? You have to be okay that it will likely be short-term.
Now you know all the types of women you should avoid in your dating life.
I want to mention one important thing.
Just like there are women all men must avoid, there are also men all women stay away from. Men who repel women like crazy without even trying. Not only do these men never get dates or laid. But they are constantly subjected to painful rejections and are forced to settle for girls they don’t even like.
One of these type of guys that most of the girls don’t like to date are nice guys, that you can read more about them Here (Unlocking Success in Dating: 6 Essential Tips to Leave the ‘Nice Guy’ Behind)