Alpha women are all around us, and it’s time we acknowledge how truly amazing and often misunderstood they are. Can you confidently identify an alpha female when you see one? Chances are, it’s not as easy as it sounds. But fear not, because today, we’re here to shed light on this intriguing personality type.
We’re going to debunk common misconceptions about what it means to be an alpha woman and reveal the art of spotting one.
You might find yourself both fascinated and somewhat intimidated by the idea of pursuing an alpha woman, even if she’s the type that captivates you the most. In this post, we’ll break down eight surprising traits that define alpha females.
I can guarantee that these traits will challenge your preconceptions and make you think, ‘How can I attract an alpha female?’ Furthermore, you’ll discover what it takes to be a high-performance alpha male who’s optimized for success in these dynamic relationships
1- Alpha woman doesn’t try to dominate her man
The Huge misconception about Alpha females is that they’re the same as their alpha male counterparts, just more boobs and less body hair.
Not true. We can’t judge the alpha female. By the same criteria, we believe the alpha male and alpha female are alpha amongst women; her Alpha status has little to do with how she relates to men.
So, are alpha females confident?
Yes,
Do They go after what They want?
Yes,
But that doesn’t mean she will try to overpower or dominate you. She is way less likely to resort to manipulative tactics than beta women.
Plus, tons of alpha females out there prefer to be submissive in the bedroom because they are alpha all day, kicking ass and taking names. They would like to come home and be cared for a little bit. Have their pleasure be your main focus.
So, there is no domination from Alpha females; they may want just to be a little submissive and be your main focus.
2- Alpha females can be very feminine
There’s this idea that alpha females are not girly, and this is again trying to judge women based on the criteria of men. Because this is far from the truth, personal style and expression have little to do with whether a woman has Alpha status.
So, while there are Alpha women out there who embrace their masculine side, there are equally as many who are super feminine.
Alpha females are capable of living in their feminine power. They value collaboration; They take care of their community’s emotional intelligence. And that only has a little to do with whether or not they like lipstick.
They’re creative and compassionate. They don’t see softness as weakness.
This is how they became alpha; true confidence in an alpha woman is knowing power and vulnerability and not being afraid to lean into that.
3- Alpha women empower others
Alpha women nurture; they don’t get to the top of the heap by belittling or putting down others. They gain their Alpha status by inspiring others to step into leadership.
Alpha women don’t take power over people; they have influence. Others naturally look to them for inspiration and guidance; they uplift their communities.
Alfa women aren’t power hungry; they’re not interested in being dictators; they naturally and confidently lead by example.
4- Alpha women are in command of their emotions
True Alpha females have this quality in common with their male counterparts. They are in tune with their feelings and understand how to process and manage them.
They don’t throw temper tantrums or fits. They’re confident. They’re emotionally intelligent, at least enough to understand their feelings and let their emotions guide them. But in a mature and considerate way.
They also are not afraid to face their ugly parts and do it gracefully.
Sure, they get jealous and insecure because they are still humans. Still, they are competent enough to take a real look at what’s beneath those feelings and work towards healing the opportunity within the challenge for growth.
5- Alpha women cultivate harmony
Alpha females are natural social conductors. They can set and maintain the vibe of a social group. And they tend to be born at it.
They’re mindful and understand that everyone needs to be checked in with, and the dynamics of a social situation are a bit of like a conduction.
So, imagine them as the conductor leading the vibe for a party for an event for the family for an entire business.
6- There can be more than one alpha female in a group
Other Alpha females do not threaten a true alpha female. She’s comfortable in her lane and not intimidated by another woman’s or Man’s power.
There’s this idea that there has to be just one person at the top of every heap, and everyone else is below them like there can only be one over.
That’s not true. If you haven’t already gathered, I’m an alpha female, and most of my friends are too. On top of that, I live in a home with three alpha men and an alfa woman. And no, it is not a constant battle between us to see who gets in charge.
Alphas are self assured enough to take turns. When it comes to leadership, they recognize that they don’t have to drive the social situation, car, or house the whole time but that others can lean on. They can rely on them to take charge and let others shine when appropriate.
Alpha women, in particular, tend to be open to collaboration. So, if you end up with an alpha female, it doesn’t mean you’re doomed to follow her being whipped.
It means that she knows when it’s time to step up. And when it’s time to step down and let someone else be in command.
7- Aloha women command attention
Alpha females draw attention to themselves, not aggressively or verbally, like, Hey, look at me; they do not need a bright, blinking neon sign that says, Hey, over here.
Instead, they have a natural gravitational pull that draws the attention of both men and women alike.
Look at a group of women speaking to each other. You can often tell who’s the alpha female because all the other women will have their bodies slightly oriented towards her. It’s subtle, but I invite you to look and see if you can spot it.
8- Alpha women have a growth mindset
The vital trait of an alpha female is that she is here to grow and improve. The alpha female constantly improves and pushes herself to be the best she can be.
Not only does she do this for herself, but she extends that quality to the people that she cares about.
She sees the full potential of others, and she’s down to help them achieve it. She doesn’t do this by being pushy, asserting dominance or taking power over people. She does this with love and care, lifting and getting under other people, putting them in their control.
Alpha women are amazing. Not only are they constantly striving to make themselves better, but they’re striving to make the world a better place around them, which I think we can all agree is a pretty sexy quality,
You might be thinking to yourself, now that I know how epic Alfa women are, I want to date one, or maybe I’m in a relationship with one. It’s a lot easier than it sounds. This article is all about community and helping you break through the limiting beliefs and thoughts that keep you from having the relationship you truly deserve.
Whether male or female, alpha or otherwise, thank you for reading this article. I hope you found better cognition from Alfa Women.
Alpha Women: Unveiling the Mystery (FAQ)
Q: Are alpha females domineering?
A: Not necessarily. Unlike the stereotype, alpha females don’t seek to control their partners. They’re confident and assertive, but they value collaboration and can be surprisingly feminine.
Q: Can alpha females be girly?
A: Absolutely! Alpha women come in all styles. They can be as comfortable in a power suit as they are in a dress. Their strength comes from within, not their outward appearance.
Q: Do alpha females put others down?
A: On the contrary! True alpha females are nurturers. They inspire and uplift others, helping them reach their full potential.
Q: How do you spot an alpha woman?
A: Look for these signs:
- Confidence and self-assuredness
- Emotional intelligence and maturity
- Ability to command attention in a natural way
- A focus on growth and development (both personally and for others)
Q: Can multiple alpha females exist in a group?
A: Yes! Alphas are secure in their own skin and don’t feel threatened by others with similar qualities. They can collaborate effectively and take turns leading when needed.
Q: Are alpha women difficult to date?
A: Not at all! Alpha women appreciate strong partners who can keep up with them. They value honesty, communication, and mutual respect.