3 Tips to Flirt with an Older Woman on Texting on Dating Apps

How to flirt with an older woman over text? Suppose you like to date older women or are attracted to a gorgeous older woman; in this article, we will feature several examples of texts you can use today. Copy and paste the samples if you like, or change them up to match your style. In that case, I guarantee the older woman you’re flirting with will love it.

I will also be explaining the theories behind why these example messages are so effective so you’re able to come up with your flirtatious messages in the future.

The golden rule of messaging an older woman is to know the goal of texting. 

Before you press the send button, ask yourself what the goal is now if you’re texting an older woman. You’re attracted to her, and your goal is to meet her in person, so before you send that message, ask yourself whether that message is getting you closer to that goal of actually meeting up if it’s probably a bad message to send.

Many guys get in the habit of sending messages that aren’t leading towards a date. 

Somethings like:

Making small talk, asking how your day was, and talking about the day at work.

You should know these messages decrease your chances of getting her to meet you. And, of course, you need to get to know each other a bit, but most guys spend too long doing this over text. The best way to get to know each other is by meeting in real life. You want to move the conversation towards a meet up at all times.

This is especially true when you’re texting an older woman. These women already have a lot going on in their lives. They may have kids to look after or a career that takes up much of their mental bandwidth.

They’re not going to want to be glued to their phone sending messages back and forth for days and weeks like a 19 year old college student.

They think differently, and it’s sometimes harder, though more rewarding, to flirt with an older woman.

If you’re texting a gorgeous woman who just happened to match with you on a dating app, there are probably a lot of other guys messaging her, not just you. If some other guy is intelligent enough to invite her out quickly rather than boring her with pointless small talk, then there’s a chance that he will win her over before you even get a chance to hang out with her.

It’s not nice to think about, but that’s how modern dating works, especially with time-pressed professional women.

1- Teasing her in the right way

Teasing is an underrated part of flirting. But when done properly, it is a good way to make the conversation more playful.

It also communicates that you’re an easygoing guy who needs to take the discussion more seriously. Men and women, we playfully tease each other, and we playfully tease the people that we’re closest to. It’s part of how we show we’re comfortable around the person. But when do we not tease, usually when we think the other person is above us?

When we’re afraid of messing up or when we are uncomfortable around somebody. You don’t want to communicate any of these things to a woman. So, I’d recommend taking every opportunity you can to tease her over text playfully.

Examples of how you can tease an older woman:

A push-pull message:

• When she says something funny, you can say: And that’s why you’re my third favourite woman a text
• When she sends you a picture: Wow, that’s the cutest picture I’ve seen in the last 10 minutes.

Any compliment paired with a slight push is a good way to tease. Exaggeration when she tells you what she’s up to, and it’s quite boring. Wow, I never knew you were so wild. If she teases you, I can’t do this anymore or break up. You’re too much trouble. Often, this will cause her to reply to defend herself and try to get you on her good side assumptions. I bet you could drink me under the table. You’re the kind of woman who likes unique and adventurous dates.

These are all good because they’re leading toward the potential and idea of a date. Remember, your ultimate goal is to meet her.

One last tip on teasing: : It’s usually a good idea to add some smiley emojis at the end of your teases. to make it more obvious that you’re kidding. Remember, the vibe of a text message can sometimes get lost in translation because she can’t hear your voice or see your face. Emojis help to communicate that playful vibe you’re looking for. If texting is in your strong soup, it’s better to read up on what constitutes a good, flirtatious text instead of typing whatever you think will work

2- Try using nicknames

Using nicknames can help transform a run-of-the-mill text message into a flirty one. Check out these examples:

• What are you up to this weekend, Cate
• Hey troublemaker, I am looking forward to seeing you tomorrow
• Hey cutie, 7 p.m. works for me

These nicknames add a bit of spice and otherwise boring text, and you’ll have to send me some when you’re organizing the best time and date to meet with her.

3- Use pictures and videos

We’re in the modern age, so you have a phone capable of sending pictures, videos and voice messages, so why not make the most of that?

Photos and videos are far more engaging than words on a screen, and they help a woman get to know you better.

Also, it’s the best way to show a woman all the exciting things you get up to when she’s not around. This is a great way to open or reignite a conversation. Just take a quick snap of your cool activity and wait for her to respond. Send a flirty video or voice message using that deep masculine voice.

If you have any other useful tips for flirting with older women over text, share them with us below and let us know what you think of these tips in the comments.

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